You known it is really important, what you choose to believe like what do you think of yourself,do you believe in yourself or not,what are the values of your life which you choose to believe in, because all this affects your life.
Now you might be thinking how does this affect your life?
Well let me tell you how?
As you know everybody wants something in their life. It may be a perfect 9-5 job or it maybe be to pass a test or to clear an entrance exam or to wake up early or it may be to find a perfect life partner or it may be to live all their dreams it can be anything. But tell me one thing how many of you achieve it? Very few.
You will find thousands and thousands peoples are applying for govt. Jobs, for civil service examinations or for making their own bakery shop or their own coffee cafe or to start their own business but how many achieve this?
tell me, very few!
there might be 20 people from your locality preparing for IPS examination but the achiever of their this dream will be only one or two. You know why?
Its because these two choose to believe in themselves. Your knowledge, your qualification may be a factor but believe in oneself is the biggest factor. You have already heard various stories like people from poor background or their kids-daughter or son cracking various govt. exams, getting placement in their dream job. How this all happens.all this happens only when they choose to believe that they can. Their are billion and trillions of example.
Like i have seen an old lady she was between 70-75 year old she was dancing on a stage very gracefully her each and every expression, steps, moves where literally so perfect that i could not believe that she is between 70-75. By this example i only want to tell you is that she could have choosen to stop dancing after coming to an certain age but she did not because she believe that she can do some more. She can add some more list of her performance in her life story. I have even seen not so good students qualifying their academic exams then those of average students. Lack of preparation would be a factor but determination and believe is the biggest one. Just think for once if Thomas Edison would have gave up his idea for the invention of bulb. What scene it would have been?
Now making something which you have never seen is not easy moreover there was lots of failures. But still we all are enjoying that one victory of that hundred failures all this happened because he CHOOSE TO BELIEVE.
Next coming up to relationships
Believing in oneself is really very important. Like i have seen people being in love and but still giving up in their relationship simply because they believe they cannot handle it or weather it is understanding issue or insecurities or not working due to long distance. The point is that you can do it but you don’t have that will, believe and determination in it. Insecurities and misunderstands can still be cured but what about your own self believe but what about you which is going within you. Your partner will cure that? or you will cure that? yes it may be true that your partner may believe in you but if you will not believe in yourself how will it work?
Values you choose
For believing in oneself it is really important to choose the correct values. There are two type of values one is negative and the later is obviously positive. You need to understand the value of choosing the positivity because it is the only thing which will take you forward. Adding positivity to every values of your will make our believe for the thing more stronger.
Last but not the least there is a believe in people that they hate their voice. You know why is it? It is only because they believe it. Where as if you make others listen to their voice they find it mesmerising and soothing. It is just your believe which its making you feel it worst.
From all these above illustrations the only conclusion we get is that we can do everything we want. we can live the life of our dreams if we choose to believe in it.