WHAT IS VERGINITY?
Virginity is the state of a person who has never engaged in sexual intercourse.There are cultural and religious traditions that place special value and significance on this state, predominantly towards unmarried females, associated with notions of personal purity, honor and worth.
I have to concede that why it is considered as significant for men or women to be virgin on their wedding day. I accept that sex is one of the most extraordinary types of correspondence that can be happen between people.
Over the course of my life I have shared sexual experiences with a number of women in my life and I do not believe that it has negatively affected my relationship with my girl. In fact, I believe that it makes the bond between us stronger as I have learned a great deal about love and about myself through the sexual experiences I have shared with others.
Is virginity a big deal for womens?
I don’t think it is. It is just like any other experience in life. People consider girls who have lost their virginity before marriage as immoral, sluts. Is it virginity who will decide how is her character?
Most of the boys want virgin girlfriend but they will have sex with each girl whom they will date.
It time that people should change there mindset it’s 21st century afterall.
They even get marry at the age of 17-18 for the fear that they will lose their virginity.
But in this era no one understands being educated and being employed is more important for that if a girl wants to stay unmarried its totally fine even in there 30’s, but then what about physical want, for society she will virgin without caring what her body wants?
Our generation need to understand that virginity is not the only thing which we look into the girl there are many more things. look at her qualification, behaviour, heart. do not just think sexually there are more then that of it.
How do I know that my bride or girlfriend is a virgin?
According to Dr. Mahindra Vatsa, gynecologist and sex counselor. One of the most common questions he get is How do I know that my bride or girlfriend is a virgin?
The only answer that I have to such questions is that there is no way to know, says Dr Vatsa. According to him, it’s just the man’s and his family’s pretentious ego that results in such unrealistic demands.
Does our traditional culture not hamper couples from engaging in premarital sex?. He presumes that “Once a couple is engaged in it resembles a permit for marriage so they believe they can do anything“.
Virginity is not the only thing that defines the purity of girl or a woman there are many more of it you just need to open up your mind to see the real girl.
that red mark on white bed sheet doesn’t defines her purity, this need be understood.